Dears,Once in a dream a few words appeard to me which I want to share with allof you...you can be amoter...mother..you can be...you can be a father....father..you can be a sister...sister....you can be abrother...brother....who bothersssssss you are alove.....lover.....all are welcome to share whatever a thought..a experience....an idea..any poem...any information...any quotation....any joke..any advice...any shortcoming of mine...any edge of mine who is pinchingyou some where...you are wlcome to share....any word you pour for me,is as a unit of blood,that you have donated for my life....you can mail me at devindernagpal@gmail.com or devindernagpal@hotmail.com or amanoatash@yahoo.com...To say I am a old man of 52,or a youngman of 52,or a child of 52years old whatever you feel is right for you....but I am ageless & feeling younger by every day passing...for me it's like to say,'so one more has passed,the vessel of life has grown by one dropor one drop has slipped from it'.I don't know....all are welcome what asl you have doesn't matter...only you heart matters.....
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devindernagpal's Blog
July 18, 2009
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Friends,
I feel at big loss,I lost right to contact an worthy, generous, & talented friend because I hurt her feelings.
She enlighted my path of life by her bold,clear,truthful & religious messgas but I feel that I made an hole in the utansil I ate or like killed the hen that gave an egg of gold every day in greediness of having all the eggs at once.
I met with the very common fate of friendship that happens between a male & a female.
The most common fate is that when both are in search of a partner & they fall in love & friendship turns into a love affair.
& 2nd is that they don't find any understanding & get separated & friendship is lost. or they try to use each other for their puposes & decive each other & friendship turns into a relation of eneminess.
I have come to realize that friendship may continue only in the people of oppositte sexes when both have a state of mind of 'beyond sex' which is easy foe a woman but difficult for a man because of the existential behaviour, as woman's role is pasive in sexual bhaviour & man's sexual behviour is aggressive.
But rare are the woman who are aware of this fact & they keep love & sex away from their syllabus but most the women become prey of love & hate & hence friendship meet the common fate.
But to continiue friendlyness man should be able to think beyond sex & friendship ends when sex or love comes inbetween & unfrtunatly I fall in that catgory & lost the most preciuos friendship who gave a lot of clearities.
Here I feel missing religion in my life,had I met real religion & gone beyond sex just by decision instead of travelling so long & gaining nothing.I feel envoy to Hakimi,Blink,gkissberth & Nupogodi.
But me is me & I can't change my place,what i can do is learn but I have paid the highest price of learning & shall never be able to coponsate that friendship.It's a permanent loss.
Or
It could the toughest heat treatment needed for purification,any way I respect & welcome both but I am joyful that I got more clearity & came more near to the TRUTH.
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