英文論壇

You have given your a reason to  smile ,to be happy and not to get married

now give your a reason for divorce…....!

here my a reason she/he says my partner always snores so we have to divorce..entery this site.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fzbc_dE2Ilc

I think I don’t have a reason to get divorce if only they got married just because love. Marriage is a matter of compromising and understanding, so everything should be out of any problem. Problems come when a marriage isn’t relying on love, but based on a wrong reason. Maybe they got married just because of money, to please their parents, to repay the kindness of smone and many other reasons which make a marriage being breakable.

Mike,

Love is not a responsiblity, it arises out of respect & understanding but when it becomes a duty, the whole system fails.

In man desire of sex comes first than desire of love, & man marries in desire of sex  hence he doesn't touch the height of love hence misses the dimenssion of love.

& hakimi , then he feels divorced & reason to get divorce are searched lateron. 

the word that I don't like to hear and to feel..is DIVORCE. But if it should happen, maybe the first reason is our partner doesn't admit our rights as a wife/husband anymore. He/she is living in his/her world, we beside her/him, but we are nothing for her/him. If it is like that, what the husband/wife for?. the second reason is his/her behaviour looks dangerous for our children. U know, lately there are some child abuses acted by their parent (whether it is mother/father or both of them). 

Dev,
When you’re being in love with smone you want the best for her/him. You want to get her being happy. I think that feeling isn’t called responsibility or task or duty. I’d call it compassion. If you have a job, it’s your duty, your responsibility, but you didn’t have to be in love with it.
For me sex is a part of love. Sex is a holy thing because it’s a combination of two loving human (since my definition of sex is to be done by two loving people. It’s not just lust but the feeling of to need each other). But it’s not the important part of love. If sex is becoming a duty, I believe there’s smthing wrong with the couple or he has sex with a whore.

for me as a woman i think my important reason is the love . or maybe love is the season to get married, and sex is the reason to continue in this relationship !!! 

You are right NabilaSh,

there is a nightmare for getting a divorce, so there must be a  reason that very important to making a decision like that.

first, you don't know anymore that there will be something you can do for make a better relationship to your partner in the future.

second, you know exactly that if you still continue with this married, you and your partner will not meet with the happiness

three, you have a final judgement that till this day you get nothing from your married except a terrible life and a sick reality of life.

You deserve for a happy life, it's your choice, but you should not make a play with this game …..honesty will make your life comfortable. 

Verbal or physical violence or lack of respect are enough reasons to get the divorce; that would be the extreme situation I can imagine. There´s no reason to continue if both don´t trust in each other.

For me not to have common understanding is the main reason of divorce, But even then I couldn't decide to have it. I feel it as selfishness to divorce but I too feel that I am wrong but still I could not accept divorce.

i think if your decision of marriage was correct  inside you( with all your feelings), you have no reason to the divorce.. the reasons will be outer you..