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Mebal Lee

Mebal Lee

China

February 6, 2010

many children who were born after 1990 like showing off their wealth on internet.  I think they don’t know what’s the meaning of rags to riches.

It’s no blame you were born in a common family. In China there is a proverb: Fortune is variant. It’s possible a poor becomes rich. Here I don’t refer to the lucky-draw. I mean if you want to be rich, it’s possible only if you study hard, insist on developing yourself and in one day chance will fall on you.  The process might take tens of years or more.

Sometimes, I envy children who run ahead of me at birth. I envy they have beautiful clothes, cars, brand-name bags or material things I dare not imagine. However, times make me mature.

I remember the film THE SHAWSHANK REDEMPTION, Shawshank spent 10 years to dig channel and during this long period, he didn’t give up himself and still insist on studying and finding every chance to pave his life after jail.  This is really an excellent film. At least from this film I’m aware of that if I want to be rich I should have specific goal and strive for it. Never say give up.

The most important is keep cool and keep your goal in mind.

09:03 PM Aug 05 2011

supermatrix
China

maybe i should leave here and find another place that can help me improve speaking skill.but someone can recommend some places? tks

05:22 AM Feb 23 2010

Mebal Lee

Mebal Lee
China

amar, thank you for your words. every person has his/her ideas of life at a specific time. at present, mine is to make money and make me more beautiful from within and outside. I don't have much belief in mind, and my understanding about this world is certainly accumulated based on real life, and life is cool or even cruel. possibly several years later, I would understand the meaning of life and the meaning of myself existence more clearly.

01:50 AM Feb 23 2010

Amar pandey
India

You have reflected the intention of numerous youth not only of  china but also of abroads.  For most of us wealth is everything and we do not hesitate doing anything to achieve it.

Have we been born to live on, only for wealth? Is there nothing more important than wealth?

For me study is meant for aquiring knowledge. And what does knowledge meant for? Perhaps, for  solving  ones problems and making our life easy for living including others, possibly to make ones life worthfull to others.

03:53 AM Feb 09 2010

Mebal Lee

Mebal Lee
China

brasilero, in China many people admire life abroad, including me. It seems more freedom and more open-mind there. But, from our limit understanding, we cannot judge which life style or education methods are better. Fact is we always think things in other countries might be better. Just like me, I think if I have children, I will send them abroad for advanced education. Because education in China means burden and no creative, at least now.

 

I have much to say, but page limits. later chances, we discuss.

09:25 AM Feb 08 2010

brasilero

brasilero
Germany

xie xie for your blog

it seemed, that ppl in other countries are more "on earth" than ppl in America or Europe. Here in Europe, ppl want to have all.  Kids need tv in their sleeping room.

Later they need motobikes , when they are 18 years, they need a car.

They didn t work for that, only parents did, but they  m u s t   h a v e   it.

That s so  stupid, but here in Europe, very often we don t have parents, no, we have 

producers, who made kids, but won t educate them.

February 4, 2010

she admitted it.

but she said she never fell in love with women and her tendencies towards the same sex are purely physical in nature.

one of my lesbian friends told me that most of girls have bisexual orientation. I believe it's true.

in my opion, love is beyond any bonds and pales.

only if you don't play love game, no flirting, then everything would be okay.

04:11 AM Feb 09 2010

Mebal Lee

Mebal Lee
China

Bogal, thank you for your comments. Most of les, my friends, are born lesbian, and some are transsexual. When they told me that bisexual stuff, I believe it because I even have magic feelings about girls. This feeling is difficult to express, like you want to protect them or want them like you. This is why I said “orientation”. Maybe it’s just I like my sex role very much and always have admiration on beautiful and excellent “the same sex”.

and I respect your opinions. 

07:52 AM Feb 07 2010

Bogle

Bogle
Germany

I respectfully disagree.  I think that most girls are not bisexual in nature.  Even homosexual women...they usually have had some bad experiences in life concerning men.  I think it is the nature of every man or woman to prefer the opposite sex.  But we are creatures of desire and it is easy for some to pervert this desire.  But in a perfect world, this would never be the case.  I wish that every man was a good man.  I wish that every woman was good and beautiful.  But these things are not true, and love is sought in wrong places.

05:41 AM Feb 05 2010

Mebal Lee

Mebal Lee
China

July, I have a good growing environment. just I like getting in touch with different kinds of people and open-minded towards  opinions. 

12:02 AM Feb 05 2010

julywidiawati
Indonesia

Just choose the right environment for you and your family to grow up..

05:23 AM Feb 04 2010

adward SD

adward SD
China

what you said is entirely right。most of people are becoming more and more crazy ,they seems to find  the nature of animals or kill their time even not understand where they are。just as a famous person said,they are just a pack of animals。dont know themselves and destination to be belonged to themselves。

February 2, 2010

the girl said:" 300 years back or ahead, that is to say, during 600 years there would be nobody surpass me."

Then all people on the scene became voiceless............quiet quiet quiet.....

this girl is just 146cm, with flat nose, very big mouth and buckteeth. what surprise us is that she has strict standard for boyfriend.

to be her boyfriend, you should graduate from Qinghua or Beida(Chinese top universities), obtain master degree, better major in Economics; you must be tall as 180cm, never had abortion experience with ex; you must be handsome, and the handsomer the better bla...bla.....

I have nothing to say !!! you can see that she is common, not beautiful, graduated form a common junior college, poor, working as a supermarket cashier... However, she wants the Mr. right-----i think that there wouldn't be more than 100 in China .  how can she compete against millions of girls more excellent than her?

well, there's really no wrong with the girl, because every girl or woman wants a excellent Mr. right. I say she is wrong because of that she put her future on a man instead of developing herself and she is so arrogant, boasting she read widely from 9 years old and her wisdom reached top at her 20 years old. O M G!!!!! in fact, I feel she is stupid.

whatever, I really admire her courage~~ below are her photos.

Yufeng Luo

yufeng

if she can find a Mr right like what she described, well , I absolutelly can find a man like Bill Gates.

01:24 AM Mar 16 2010

phdaxian

phdaxian
China

凤姐征婚,只能说她的梦想不太实际。你也没必要这样写文章发泄吧。
大家都理性一点。

你在这里介绍下这件事就好,不要鄙视人家了。 起码她张那么丑,也敢这样公然征婚。勇气可嘉。

02:31 AM Mar 11 2010

Mebal Lee

Mebal Lee
China

phdaxian 我确实有偏见。我觉得一个人在羞辱别人之前先要掂量一下自己。可是凤姐那段时间确实羞辱了不少人,我那时一时气愤,就写了一点自己的看法。恩。。。不能让我有点自己的意见么????!!!(phdaxian,maybe i have a prejudice against Feng, but i cannot help thinking that one person should balance herself first before she humiliates others,but that period, Feng really humiliated most men, every chinese knows that. I was very angry with that and expressed my own opions in my blog.......errr.......cannot i have my own thoughts on a hot issue???!!!

12:58 AM Mar 11 2010

phdaxian

phdaxian
China

每个人都有追求幸福的权利。你不能这样带有偏见的看待。

04:43 AM Mar 10 2010

969641918

969641918
China

凤姐太强了!丢人都都出国了!

11:30 PM Feb 10 2010

Mebal Lee

Mebal Lee
China

Amar, this issue is proved a kind of speculation. This girl wants fame and luckily there’s a group prefers to hype her. Yeah, next time when I want to discuss something I should choose a mild way and understand the deeper reason of it.Thanks for your advice.

08:59 PM Feb 09 2010

Amar pandey
India

Some times lesser beautifuness make ones rude and it makes ones doubtful to others simpathy, loves and careness. As a writer, you need to opt an diplomatic approach when you are going to describes such types of personality.

By the way as it is evident that we are not very good at this point. So its okey. What we need most is try to optimise ours idea and thought so that we could descibes the matter at its best level. 

03:34 AM Feb 09 2010

Mebal Lee

Mebal Lee
China

Bogle, I admit that I’m angry with this girl. I say sorry for that. At my age, it’s not a sensible act to do that. Okay, I accept your criticism on me and agree with you that be yourself and do yourself is enough. Life is short.

07:48 AM Feb 07 2010

Bogle

Bogle
Germany

I would hope that you would find someone better than Bill Gates ;).  We are all on this Earth for a short while.  The mortality rate is 100%.  I would like extra money, but wealth is not life.  Nor does it bring happiness.  

A pretty girl will have the attitude to this girl.  She will be arrogant and rude like this girl.  But that is why most pretty girls are not desirable.  They have no humility and a rotten heart.  But the girl in these pictures has the same demeanor, yet is not even pretty.  So she is both rotten and stupid.   She will learn humility through life experiences...and she will not be happy about it.

05:34 AM Feb 05 2010

Mebal Lee

Mebal Lee
China

amar, maybe I didn't express clearly. I DON'T think it's wrong to have criterion towards mr right. no matter what kind I don't care. I just dislike this girl's arrogant and unpolite. she said "all man over 30 can go to hell", she despise her ex boyfriend, saying:"you are not tall not handsome, you don't fit for me, if i take you home everyone will  laugh at me" and other derogatory words. but why doesn't she measure herself first? 

02:07 AM Feb 04 2010

Amar pandey
India

there is nothing wrong in thinking for Mr right. We all have the tendency to have our Mr right/Mrs right, so does her. It might be possible, you had not interpreted her wants. Every one has his own criteria for Mr right and it is not necessary, that  to be simmiler to ours.