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benyamin14

benyamin14

Iran, Islamic Republic Of

July 17, 2009

Once, when I checked people’s profile to find a new friend, I saw some people that they have more than 1000 friends. I was really surprised when I saw that. I have 7 friends that I send messages for 6 of them, I calculated if I had 1000 friends, I should send messages for almost 857 people that were my friends. It means if I send a message for my real friends every week, I should send messages for about 122 of my friends every day. And if I spent 5 minute for writing a message (I define it really optimistically because my English is poor), I should spend about 6 hours a day to write for my friends! Ooohhhh! What is your idea about this subject? I write my experience in the following:When I enter this site, I decided to find as many people as I can because I want to be familiar with different people from different country. But when I find my first 3 new friends and we write for each other and explain our idea and our information for each other, I found it really interesting and also Time consuming. In my idea friendship is an interaction between you and your friend. As you like to find your answer, your friend expects you to answer his/her messages. Therefore I decided to choose my friend with open eyes and define a limitation for accepting new friends because I have not enough time to communicate with a lot of people .Also it is hard and time consuming for me to write because I am not good in English. If I was good in English, I could choose/accept more friends.Now I have 7 friends that I tried to choose them carefully and base on my expectations. Fortunately most of my friends are good and I was almost successful in choosing them. How about you? 

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03:08 PM Jul 17 2009

zülall

zülall
Turkey

hi benyamin.. I only want to thank you for sharing your lovely opinions.. ı really enjoyed reading.. however, ı wont add you as a friend for the fear that ı cant be a good one as you wrote about your expectations from your friends.. also, ı see that you are happy with your 7 friends.. keep on enjoying englishbaby :) take care..