"Destiny"is a very convenient word for those who never make any decisions.~ Jodie Foster~

Irene, I absolutely agree that we can change our life for the better or worse. And when it’s for the better is always a struggle (Но мой плот, свитый из песен и слов, Всем моим бедам назло Вовсе не так уж плох ) while for the worse (Тянут ко дну боль и грусть,
Прежних ошибок груз)

Thank you My Dear!:)

Right, Lena. And I believe we are successful in doing it.:)

Happy woman you are, my dear Mahtab.:) You like your destiny. It’s just what is expected to be. So you are walking on the right road.

Yes, Olya, she is a beautiful and special woman.
I don’t believe in fate. I’m absolutely sure that we can change our life for better or worse. We build our destiny and after say it’s God who did it with us. No God can do as many problems for us as we have a talent to do for ourselves. After that we blame somebody else, it is no concern of us.
We are responsible for our highs and lows, nobody else. People can ask God to ease their life but for sure God is only watching us maybe thinking,”Hmm… People, I am only God! I didn’t create you for holding you by the hand. You are free to do what you think it’s good for you and for others. Let’s see, what you will have towards your last day Then I will accept you in my world…maybe….”
Sorry for my bold fantasies..