lol, all of you are very funny & nice ppl. .. Well, ofcourse it's not the same to be married than just being b.f. and g.f. I got married when i was 15 years old, and I got divorced at 30, I have lived 5 years separated and my daughter is 20 years old.
I can say from my own experience that during courtship, usually we idealize the fiance. It is easy to add him/her attributes and virtues that they may not have, we see them as perfect. But when you get married, you realize that he/she is just a human being like you, with defects and virtues.
U can see she/he might have different temper, can be messy or might not like things that you really like. Then, there come the disagreements: abt money, abt future plans, abt his/her family, abt furniture, abt children, etc, etc. .., Til it pass an adaptation process, and that's when you find the true real love, or as well, the disappointment. That is why some ppl say: "love is blind"
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