I need help---a sex relating problem

my boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a month , everything is going on so well….....except for one thing, it's only 2 weeks ago that we got to the third base :having sex, he has no idea about my clitoris and is quite clumsy working on that….well, i don't say much about it, many men don't know about that area which they thought they knew, sorry to say that, but it's true.

He is a really nice guy and treats me well, i don't want to dump him, but the sex….....what can i do about it??

You really need to talk about it with  him.

Tell him what exact places you like to be touched,how you like to have sex.

We always need to talk about it because we never know what´s in the other person´s minds.

Do you talk a lot with him?

Maybe you are strangers,even dating.

We need to have complicity in relationships.

For example: I had a very selfish boyfriend and he was really bad during sex. He didn´t care about my pleasure.

I realized that I would be alone,it´s better than to be frustated all the time.

Now I have a boyfriend that is completely different: we talk a lot about what we like in bed. He asks me things and I ask him things too, so both are happy.

In the beggining sex wasn´t SO good, but since we started talking about it and making what the other like, it became WONDERFUL.

So dear,talk to him

And if he don´t like to have this conversation, so, HE is the WHOLE problem,not you!

Good luck =)

And yes, most of the guys have no idea where our clit is situated!!!

And yes, most of the guys have no idea where our clit is situated!!!
Clit…Hmm…Sounds familiar..

Yes, I agree, talk to him. If he doesn't want to talk then he is the problem. Also, sometimes when guys drink too much alcohol they can't get hard.

i suggest your partner use some tonic like "viagra" so if your proble solved it means that this is his problem and he need to cure himself and otherwise this is your problem and you need help.

Yes,the guy above said an interesting thing: besides viagra,if you order on the web, they sell some ,or some oil that keeps man´s erection.

Thaere´s a lot of online sex shops.

While I cant exactly give advice and consolation, I’d tell you NEVER use those stupid oils and creams on the web. I’ve seen so many cases with men getting warts, developing erectile dysfunction and sometimes losing potency due to them. Also if a guy in such a young age will use viagra it’ll be too bad. You should know how viagra works. Its more of a mental consolation than a proper thing that has effect.

HahaHa =) You better ask Oprah =)) Or we have Guzin Abla in Turkey =))

Im wonderin do you really think is it suitable place to post this? = ) Okay this is life talk but not that life =)))

really i'm so ashamed ,how can you post something like that

it's an  exaggeration ,so sensitive subject

please stop that

oh my god,i'm so surprised and shocked

CRANberry,

the most amazing thing in all that story is that you all take this crap too seriosly. This lusybaby just cuts articles from some girl's magazines and post them here. Look through her threads and you'll see that all she writes is kinda "I'm almoust 13 and my clit won't grow" or what should I do if my tits aren't that big as ones of my friends…" Besides, her English is too good as for a Chinese