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Cougar Mania

Cougar Mania

Date: Oct 26 2007

Themes: Pop Culture, Romance

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It’s a phenomenon that’s becoming more and more common. All across the United States, people are following the example of 44-year-old Demi Moore and her 29-year-old husband, Ashton Kutcher: Older women are pairing off with younger men.

The slang term for women in their late 30s or older who pursue men in their 20s or teens is cougar. It gets thrown around a lot these days. Watch Amanda tell Devan how someone actually had the nerve to call her a cougar.

Dialog

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Amanda

Amanda

Devan

Devan

Amanda:  So I went to the bar the other night and somebody had the audacity of calling me a cougar. Do you know what that is?

Devan:  Cougar? You mean like the older woman that likes to sleep with a younger man?

Amanda:  Yeah. Apparently that’s what it was and I was kind of offended by that.

Devan:  I don’t think you’re old enough to be a cougar.

Amanda:  I don’t think so either. I thought there had to be about 20 years difference of the girl and the guy.

Devan:  I think that’s about right. Doesn’t the woman have to be at least 40 to technically be a cougar?

Amanda:  I think so. And possibly married. And possibly with children. Yeah. So have you ever stopped to think about what the draw is from the woman to the man and the man to the woman in this case?

Devan:  Well, I think it’s because they’re both at their sexual peak.

Amanda:  I hadn’t really thought about that. So for a guy, what, 20-something?

Devan:  I’ve heard that a man’s sexual peak is 18 and a woman’s is 35.

Amanda:  Really? So I have two years to go…

Devan:  Maybe you should find an 18-year-old in the next couple of years.

Amanda:  Maybe! Like your brother, right? Not so much?

Devan:  Not so much.

Amanda:  Oh. Well it’s weird, because as a mother having a son, I’m not sure how comfortable I would be if he came home in high school and had a 40-year-old girlfriend.

Devan:  Yeah. You stay away from my brother.

Amanda:  Okay. Good to know. Note to self.

 

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Discussion

When Amanda went to the bar the other day, someone called her a cougar. Devan says that Amanda is too young to be a cougar and Amanda agrees. They agree that the ideal cougar is over 40, about 20 years older than her lover, possibly married and possibly a mother. Most cougars are also very predatory when it comes to securing their young prey. That’s why they’re named for large, wild cats.

Amanda asks Devan why she thinks older women are going for younger men and vice versa. She immediately responds that she thinks it’s because the male sexual peak is 18 while a woman’s is 35.

Devan’s brother sounds like a good young lover to Amanda, but Devan doesn’t like the idea of them together one bit.

Why do you think older women and younger men get together?

 

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green greener

United Arab Emirates

I don't have a clear idea of why some older women are attracted by younger men though I hear a number of stories of this kind. In my opinion, it could be money; the woman is rich enough to attract young men around her. It could be the social level of woman, she is famous. In rare cases, it could be love, as we know; love can't recognize age difference, beauty or disability.   

07:07 PM Jul 25 2009 |

green greener

United Arab Emirates

Why I can't see the dialog, quizz and discussion?

am I not allowed to borwse it? Frown is it a problem with ebaby web page?

01:32 PM Jul 25 2009 |

panet70

Philippines

serious issues?...like what?..what about my case?... i don't have issues about my own father-daughter relationship. My father has done perfectly as a father, husband, head of the family and as the breadwinner.  But since I started liking guys… I always choose guys with older age than mine…i prefer much when he is 10-15 years older. Maybe I have my own issues if that's the case… I just can't pinpoint as to what these issues are.

01:15 PM Jul 25 2009 |

NIIS

NIIS

Germany

I just can't unterstand why any guy would want to be with a woman who's 20 years older. I simply doesn't make any sence to me. However, the other way around it would be perfectly ok. ^^

In my opinion, most of them might have a serious father / mother issue, don't you think? :-D

12:05 PM Jul 25 2009 |

massik

Morocco

nice to meet you mania

10:29 PM Jun 21 2009 |

Cristtiano

Brazil

It's an amazing lesson, I'm very grateful for you all. 

01:15 PM Jun 21 2009 |

bluese

bluese

Turkey

Thats very nice of you sharing this.It's interesting.Thank you very much…

11:56 AM May 29 2009 |

freewilly87

Germany

I think it is very tingly for both of them. On the one side a woman is looking for someone in order to refresh her youth. On the other hand the boy wants to learn from her life experiences. Maybe older woman make someone feel more attractive and covetable.

10:50 AM May 24 2009 |

terralerra

terralerra

Brazil

what about the very old man who is married and like to have a girl friFoot in mouthend in 20s?

02:43 PM Apr 22 2009 |

eflect

India

Thats very nice  of you sharing this.It's interesting.

www.improvevocabulary.org

01:47 PM Apr 04 2009 |

maya.a

maya.a

Israel

and 100% of man do the same:)))))

07:47 AM Mar 16 2009 |

ejoloji

Turkey

hy

 

06:49 AM Mar 16 2009 |

dan_le95

Viet Nam

its totally kool

05:58 AM Mar 16 2009 |

shinasia

shinasia

Oman

lo00o0ol,, crazy thing!

10:45 AM Mar 02 2009 |

maya.a

maya.a

Israel

you are very open person((((: , i like it very much and i agree with you at all

07:27 PM Feb 17 2009 |

maya.a

maya.a

Israel

you know , many old man also looking for a young girls, i arived right now from tailand and i have to say that it was a loooooot of couples like this.so it's almost the same ,man and women not different so much ,but it's more accepted in society to see older man with young girl than to see old women with young boy.

 

 

07:18 PM Feb 17 2009 |

blue_sky7952

Taiwan

aha!

sex is nice but

I like the feeling hug my gf better:)

and age isn't a big deal for love too

11:45 AM Feb 03 2009 |

anna-2008

anna-2008

China

i understand ,thanks.cougar literally means lion, but the figurative meaning is that.

10:51 AM Jan 02 2009 |

betrayal

betrayal

Oman

It is really silly matter.Sorry for that but everyone has his viewpoint

06:25 PM Dec 24 2008 |

betrayal

betrayal

Oman

 in my opinion, i think it is really wrong because at the beginning everything will be okay but with the elapsing of time many problems may be occurred because the sexual desire will be gone and each of them are going to make fun of the other.

 

06:20 PM Dec 24 2008 |

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