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He's Just Not That Into You

He's Just Not That Into You

Date: Mar 25 2009

Themes: Romance

Grammar: Second Conditional

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Everyone has different feelings and experiences when it comes to dating and love, but most of us can agree on one thing: it’s not easy. It’s hard enough to meet someone you like who likes you back. Building a lasting relationship with that person is even more difficult.

He’s Just Not that Into You is a new romantic comedy with an all-star cast. In the movie, Ben Affleck, Jennifer Aniston, Scarlett Johansson, Drew Barrymore and other hot young stars play characters who are all searching for love…and failing to find it. Ella recently saw the film. Dale wants to know if it will teach him anything about dating. Listen to them talk about the movie.

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Dale

Dale

Ella

Ella

Dale:  Have you seen He’s Just Not That Into You?

Ella:  I did, I went with a couple of my girlfriends and we went to the movie and just had a huge time.

Dale:  And so is it like a chick flick?

Ella:  Definitely a chick flick. A guy would enjoy it ‘cause they could probably relate to the male characters. But, I don’t know, it was really fun. It was kind of confusing ‘cause there was like eight different storylines going on, and it was kind of choppy. But you saw all different aspects of love. You saw people like the newcomer, and then you saw the married couple, and then the cheating, and then you saw the guy who knew his way around and the girl who was completely confused, and…it was really interesting.

Dale:  Do you think a guy like me could learn something from this movie?

Ella:  Possibly.

Dale:  ‘Cause I haven’t seen it yet, so I’m thinking is it more for the male side or the female side? Even though it is a chick flick, if a guy like me just watched it, I would learn and walk away with something?

Ella:  I think it’s more directed towards the females, and how guys play the game. All the rules of attraction that are going on. You get dumped, and then how you get over it. It just covers every aspect of relationships.

Dale:  Right on.

 

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Discussion

Ella recently saw He’s Just Not That Into You with a big group of her girlfriends. She enjoyed the movie even though the plot was a bit confusing.

Dale thinks that the movie sounds like a chick flick. He isn’t sure if it would be an interesting movie for a guy to watch. But if the movie can teach him something about dating, he’d like to watch it. He must need some help in that area.

Some people say dating is like a game, with rules that you have to play if you want to find love. Do you think that love is a game? What advice would you give to someone who was looking for love?

 

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zhzloverzy

zhzloverzy

China

I don't think so that you will learn  something  about love from chick flick !!!...  because the storyline of film is mostly images…  it is impossible in real lives…

but sometime it will be ~

08:52 AM Mar 26 2009 |

michael1028

China

love is just as a company operating, need more patience and enthusiasm, also a good balance of emotion of the couple.

04:19 AM Mar 26 2009 |

metal21

metal21

Nicaragua

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01:27 AM Mar 26 2009 |

metal21

metal21

Nicaragua

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01:00 AM Mar 26 2009 |

metal21

metal21

Nicaragua

Definitely love is a game and the most difficult. A guy has to know very well the girl he is dating, so in depens on the way she is, man has to react. Undestending girls is a difficullt task.

12:58 AM Mar 26 2009 |

LengYuan

LengYuan

China

love is not a game.to love is hard, to be loved is happiness.but no matter which one u r,u should cherish it from the bottom of ur heart.

12:57 AM Mar 26 2009 |

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LIL

LIL

Saudi Arabia

love could be a game for who want to considret it as a game

and my adviceto anyone looking for love is to be honest with his or her lover

10:57 PM Mar 25 2009 |

LIL

LIL

Saudi Arabia

i like what did Ella said about the movie

and i think its really intersting to see it

10:48 PM Mar 25 2009 |

giuSyna

Italy

i haven’t seen the movie yet, but i’m planning to watch it! (i do like chick flick!)

06:22 PM Mar 25 2009 |

giuSyna

Italy

i haven't seen the movie yet, but i'm planning to watch it! (i do like chick flick!)

06:21 PM Mar 25 2009 |

abualeiz

Yemen

Love is very important thing not to playing.

So, If you want to love and to be beloved, don't use love as a game.

 

05:31 PM Mar 25 2009 |

little cherry

Lithuania

Love isn't a game and those who think like that,are making a big mistake…To feel in true love is an awesome feeling,but on the other hand it's very difficult to find the person you want to be together… For those who're still lonely and searching for love,i would advise don't despond,confidence themselves and enjoy the life ;) because real love come's unexpected… ;) it's just my oppinion.

04:56 PM Mar 25 2009 |

Paulgye

Paulgye

Ecuador

definetly a chick flick

03:56 PM Mar 25 2009 |

nghiemhoa

Viet Nam

i've never dated with anybody, so i've never experienced love. somtime i sad about that, i will watch this fiml and probaly after that i will find a love for myshefl

03:29 PM Mar 25 2009 |

uf571

China

love is the special thing.you are excited,you life would change with she when she come.this is my thought.

03:06 PM Mar 25 2009 |

larrychen

larrychen

China

Well, love is not a game, but it has as many rules as a game, and we sometimes must follow the rules. I have no advice for the ones who are looking for love, 'cause I am one. I am searching for my love, but not courageous enough. You know it is not an easy thing to meet some girl, especially when you are so familiar with each other. Maybe we should firstly learn the difference between friendship and love-ship.

02:39 PM Mar 25 2009 |

sadiik

sadiik

Uganda

yh datz rite gurl, love iz life

01:30 PM Mar 25 2009 |

sadiik

sadiik

Uganda

hello everBody in here

01:18 PM Mar 25 2009 |

miffoo

miffoo

Slovakia

I haven't this movie but I think it's chick flick. Love in the movies is not really and feel is only play, but love not game when u take love seriously u don't learn something  about love and relationship from  the movie

01:16 PM Mar 25 2009 |

Mars0910

China

Love is really not a easy thing ,but in a large degree ,it depends on yourself ,and with a bit of lucky . Meeting someone that suits you well probably will take at any place .And you will get it if your eyes are bright . Then if you are already be together ,respect and treasure each otheo,you will get a true love !

01:08 PM Mar 25 2009 |

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