Learn English with this performance English lesson

Dear Lesya, I am supposed  to be ready and go out to attend my business,  and I am here reading  posts  from so many members, you can imagine, I am losing money ,and I don´t care , whenever I log out  i am richer  and thinking how nice  you are all.  

do I have to say more ???  big chuckle !!!! 

i had performed alot on stage since my childhood and i have’t gotten stage fright ever in my life. but the demon exists in many people’s life. its actuly somewhere inside our phsyche if we have been experienced some bleak and chagrgin, any situtaion of being bathed in sweat any mishap from past we keep the things in our consious and then latter it tranfared to sub consious we forget the things temporarily but whenever we face the thing on a par with, a tantrum arise. that’s why we look quizzical. to overcome this trouble we have to start the venture with full determination of mind and soul with great emphasis on task and unduly efforts. if we are on stage then forget that there is world around you just get lost in your performance just try to sprout pitheness and fothrightness and people ll love you. there ll be an outre’ kind of thingy happen.

Julito, rely on my help in any time. 

How do you feel yourself here on the public wall of eBaby? Are we people you can relate to or not? ;)

LESYA,  Now my stage fright is only when I am with people  I can not relate to , as you say, I feel like a fish  without water , please heeelp me !!!!

Thank you, my dear Julito for such kind words and compliments. 

I always chose the places I’m comfotable in. If I enjoy to be in a shadow and to sit on the back seats why should I put myself to the place where I feel as if I’m  a fish without water? What for? For whom? 

Julito, I see you have changed your profile picture. You look great and calm on this photo. There is no hint of the stage fright on your face ( joking). 

If you could know how I miss greenery. At least 5 months for the fresh foliage to wait.

Dear Lesya, you are an intelligent and vivacious woman, stop being the  ”black sheep of the family” , put yourself in the line of fire, the shadows and the back seats are not  for you.  C´mon, you can do it!!! 

englishty,  i think so,  the stage fright  in most cases is a creation of our imagination. 

I think people who suffer from stage fright don’t necessarily have it because of just bad experience in the past but also because of bad expectations to yourself, i mean you make a prediction that you won’t be able to do something without even trying it and then the fears surround you that it makes you fully incapable of doing it and to get over it in my opinion is to give everything a try and then judge and i’m sure you would impress yourself.

I’m a black sheep in my family. :(

My parents and brother never had any problems to be the center of attention. My mother is a sportswoman and performer in her youth and a brilliant lecturer nowadays. She is a public person. She has no discomfort being under the fire of hundreds pairs of eyes.

My father and brother are professional musicians. Stage is their work and pleasure. So, all members of my family are far away from the expression “stage fright”.

As for me, I never enjoyed any performances I once forced to make on public. It is always a hell to me. Any suggestions to play piano, sing, deliver a lecture, to say a solemn speech or something like that meet firm: “No!” without hesitation.

If there is no way left to escape the stage I don’t  freez up being on stage. With all my might I  try to overcome myself to act  in front of people as freely as  I can struggling with tremendous anxiety that is visible only for me.  ;)

I detest to be a center of attention wherever it is:  at work, in friendly company, on the street – anywhere.

I like to be in a shadow. 

I never get stage fright.

Since my childhood I often took part in some perfomances (at kindergarten, at school, at Uni). Also I had an experience of public speaking making reports on Educational and linguistic subjects in Uni and at my work.

I suffered from stage fright the first time I had to  give a short presentation of my paperwork at the university. I froze up from excitement and anxiety. But like other experiences it just happened the first time and I got used to it and felt at home afterwards.  

I like performing on stage . I got stage fright when I on stage for the first time .

no.at all so I know I freeze up when i get on stage and 

I’m terrified of being the centre of attention. It never worked with me. No matter how I   know the material whether it’s English or a piece of music or just a speech or a chat, I’m totally lost up to the memory loss. I cannot produce the melody on public having a perfect ear for music, cannot remember ordinary things that just spring to my memory as soon I’m off ”stage”; i do silly things. I’ve always hated playing music on stage, was terrified of it, was always a flop, unless I was blended with other people, in a company :) Alone, oh no, it’s horrible for me.

I like the curtains though. They’re just like in my living room. Oh, my, I’m the centre of attention in my own room :))

I had never liked to be the center of attention ,but this trait of my character was about to change in 2008. I was in India with some dear friends, at that time there were religious festivals all over Calcutta , thousand of people were attending , we came across one  of them and from the distance the Master of Ceremony invited us to step onto the stage where musicians and dancers were performing, the beat of the drums and other Indian instruments were exhilarating , so   totally psyched up I  akwardly  joined the dancers in their movements.   I don´t regret my audacity, I had a thrill at the time. :)))

First of all , my sympathy to Vanessa, those mishaps are likely to happen sometimes, laught it off.  We should look at the bright side, surely the play was a hit and Vanessa unanimously was declared the most popular girl in town, in the years to come, she will also  have a story to amuse her childrens.  :))))))