jiang nan nv zi
China
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August 25, 2007
it isnt about how many friend you have or how accepted you are
not about if you have plans this weekend or if you are alone,
it isnt about who you are dating, who you used to date, how many people you have dated, of if you havent been with anyone at all.
it isnt about who you have kissed
it isnt about sex
it isnt about who your family is or how much money they have
or what kind of car you drive or where you are sent to school
it is not about how beautiful or ugly you are
or what clothes you wear,what shoes you have on , or what kind of music you listen to ,
it is not about your hair is blonde, red, black or blown or if your skin is too light or too dark
not about what grades you get, how smart you are, how smart everybody else, thinks you are or how smart standardized tests say you are
ir is not about respresenting your whole being on piece of paper and seeing who will accept the written you
but
life is about who you love and who you hurt
it is about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully
it is about keeping or betraying trust
it is about friendship ,used as a sanctity or weapon
it is about what you say and what you mean , maybe hurtful, maybe heartening,
it is about starting rumors and contributing to pretty gossip
it is about judgments you pass and why
and who your judgment are spread to
it is about who you have ignored with full control and intention
it is about carrying inner hate and love letting it grow and spreading it
but most of all, it is about using your life to touch or poison other peoples hearts in such a way that could have never occurred alone
only you choose the way those hearts are affected , and those choice are what lifes all about
August 5, 2007
today i read the note which wrote by a foreigner about how to make friends with foreigners, and i have written down my ideas.
i want to say something about friendship and love.
yes, my english is not so good to express my feelings very well, but i know you would get my meanings!
This morning a stranger added my msn and told me: hey, be careful of foreigners! Which made me very angry，I know the friend is a good guy who just wants me to be careful, however, there is so deep misunderstanding between Chinese and foreigners. Because some Chinese bad behave gave foreigners bad feelings, at the same time , some foreigners bad behave gave us terrible feelings, but we must admit , not all .
With the development of the society, English becomes more and more important if you want to know the world , with china getting stronger, lots of foreigners like come to china and learn the language and cultures here. So great!
However, some Chinese make use of the chance to do their private business, such as in the name of making friends , but, do you know what is friendship, no matter whom you want to make friends from china or out of china, do you know the true friendship??? Especially remember, when you make friends with foreigners, you will stand for Chinese , a kind culture with another culture together, your behave will stand for china, so please do it a real Chinese people, don't destroy Chinese image in china just because of your behave! But the first thing is to improve your personality , no matter he or she is Chinese or foreigners , if you want to make friends with him or her, please make friends with your heart, honesty, sharing, heart to heart , help each other!
! Though we cant deny the truth that we know each other with some reasons in the beginning, with knowing each other more and more, we should treat the friendship serious-minded! Of course, foreigners should do it too! Your party will treat you with the same attitude and method that you treat her or him!
Anyway, facing some behaves of foreigners, I hope foreigners think about your behaves! Chinese are friendly and kind, at least most of Chinese, when you want to make friends with us, please use your heart! Especially when you want to make friends with opposite sex! Friendship exists really between female and male only if you treat it as friendship seriously with your heart! If one day you fall in love with the girl of the boy, ok, just start the holy love, it is human beings emotion, love has no country limits and bounds, only men and women! However, when you want to start the relationship, you should ask yourself first, whether you would hurt her or him, whether it is love or not! Don't treat love a children game! Especially when you fall in love an exotic girl or boy in an exotic country! We cant ignore the condition, there are some foreigners in china who play Chinese girls one by one, of course, I don't have the right to interpose others’ private business, but I must say, that you have destroy foreigners image in Chinese people eyes, you must know in china your behave stands for foreigners! And at the same time , I should ask the girls , don't you feel being hurt? if he loves you , ok , you must be happy and get your happiness, no matter where he is from , how old he is, that is love, however, I think you should learn how to protect yourself first, especially your feeling, sometimes don't be cheated by tie! We have freedom to look for love, but the first thing is that don't be hurt! and some foreigners, most Chinese girls are worth to be loved, and lovely , of course , to Chinese boys and men! Forgiving, caring, trusting, looking after each other, honesty , that is love! If you just want to play, I want to ask your heart, is your heart lonely when you calm down alone? No one you can talk heart to heart, because you didn't treat the relationship, how do you want your party treat you???? When you get old, ask yourself, how many people did you hurt when you were young, are you really happy???? Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love’s only special when yu give it to someone who is really worth it !
Hey, girls, I despise you, if you want a foreign boyfriend just because you want to do your selfish business, such as emigration. What do you treat you as??? Don't you have the ability to make your dream to come out? What do you treat your boyfriend as????? Where is the emotion??????
Making friends and love with heart. Respect each other heart to heart, honest, don't pollute your own spirit! Friendship and love can happen everywhere, no matter where you are from . no matter how old you are , just with your heart, respect yourself first! I believe true friendship and true love existing in the world
respect your friends, respect your boyfriend, respect your girlfriend, no one is your tool, no one is stupid!
You can agree with me or not, just think about it !
July 30, 2007
days before , my friend humming asked me to start my blog to write my story and views, as a matter of fact, i wanted to do like that before, just becaust something happened suddenly, yes, my father was ill in hospital!
as humming said it is a nice name; HUMMINGBIRD-FLYRHYTHM, i like it very much!
tomorrow, i will start my blog!
welcome here!
